Questions of the Week:

1. What promises have I made to myself, and how can I take intentional steps to honor them this year?
   This question ties into the idea that self-esteem comes from keeping promises to oneself, encouraging readers to focus on personal accountability and integrity.

2. What aspects of my current routine or mindset are holding me back from fully embracing my vision for the future?
   This question prompts readers to identify areas where they might be stuck or misaligned and encourages them to make adjustments to support growth.

3. How can I create balance in my life by prioritizing what truly matters while leaving space for joy and fulfillment?

Embrace the Vision: Leadership, Resilience, and the Journey to Your Best Self

As the first full week of the new year unfolds, there’s an energy in the air that feels ripe with opportunity. It’s a time to pause and ask yourself: What progress will I seek, and how can I infuse the process with fun and joy along the way?

Reflecting on 2024, I’ve realized the importance of embracing hard truths. I said I wanted the hard and was ready for it—but I wasn’t. Balancing family, business, and life pushed my endurance to its limits. I lost sight of the future I was working towards in the present.

Professionally, it was a lonely year. Pouring into others without refilling my own energy took a toll, and I was reminded of a very valuable life lesson, that self-esteem comes from keeping promises to myself. External validation, no matter how abundant, can’t fix internal struggles. Self discipline, leads to self esteem, which magnifies self confidence, and ultimately rejoices in self-love. There may be little things worse in this world than consistently breaking promises to that other human who’s reflection you see daily in the mirror. These lessons have shaped how I’m approaching this new year—with intention, focus, and resilience.

Last night at the Golden Globes, Demi Moore shared a profound insight during her winning speech: “You will never be enough… but you can know the value of your worth if you just put down the measuring stick.” What a powerful reminder to stop comparing yourself to others and start embracing the unique journey you’re on. After all, leadership isn’t about perfection—it’s about authenticity and growth.

Leadership begins with how we lead ourselves. It’s about facing life’s challenges with resilience, clarity, and a sense of purpose. Building a legacy isn’t easy, but the struggles you’ve navigated have shaped you into a stronger, more capable version of yourself. Trust your vision, take decisive action, and remember that every problem holds the seed of growth.

Author Dan Martell offers a practical tool for combating self-doubt: “When self-doubt speaks, we answer it with ‘Thank you, not necessary!’” This approach allows us to acknowledge negative thoughts without letting them derail our progress. Similarly, he emphasizes the power of a clear, detailed vision. “When you can describe your future with the same level of detail and clarity as your present, then you’ll have a compelling enough vision to guide and propel you through the daily challenges with built-in answers.”

So, let’s dream a little. Imagine going to bed tonight and having a vivid dream about your life 5-10 years from now. Picture the people around you, the thriving business or empire you’ve built, and the lifestyle you’re enjoying. Envision your best self living your best life. What do you see? What brings you joy? What aligns with your vision for the future?

Now, bring that vision into focus. Have you preloaded your calendar and schedule with the big life rocks—the moments and milestones that matter most—so you’re only working in the spaces between joy and fulfillment? If not, there’s no better time to start than now.

This week marks the first inventory creation day of the year. It’s a chance to take stock of where you are and map out where you want to go. What are you most looking forward to right now that aligns with your vision and best future self? Let this be the year you go all in on your dreams.

Leadership isn’t for everyone, but for those who choose to embrace it, the rewards are profound. It’s about leading by example and inspiring others through your actions. It’s about staying resilient in the face of challenges and finding purpose in the journey. And it’s about building a legacy that reflects your values, vision, and passion.

As we step into 2025, let’s commit to this: Trust your vision, act with purpose, and embrace the challenges that come your way as opportunities for growth. You have what it takes to make this year extraordinary. I believe in you and am here to support you every step of the way. Let’s make 2025 the year we’re #allin.

Cheers to an amazing year and all that we’ll create together!